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Monday, June 9, 2014

Mommy & Bray Time

I am loving my six hours a week of just Braylen & Mommy time while Evie is at school.  After packing a bag filled with snacks for two, diapers galore, two water bottles, entertainment in case there are meltdowns, more snacks, and other loot needed for two kids day after day, I feel like a lady of leisure heading out the door with just one kid.

I scheduled two play dates for Braylen this past Friday and today.  It's been a nice change for him to be around toddlers his age and to be without his sister grabbing his toys, pushing him around, and stealing Mommy's attention.  On Friday, we took a mom from my mom's group and her little guy with us to the B & O Railroad Museum.  The boys enjoyed the train tables, train display outside, and saying "choo-choo".

B & A at the B & O
These little guys are about 1 month apart

Today, we went to the zoo with Liz & Fiona.  It was such a special treat to go with just our younger kids; normally we are two crazy moms chasing after our 3-year-old and 18-month-old running in different directions.  We commented about 1,000 times about how much easier one kid is once you are used to two.

Could it be that I am sitting down??
That NEVER happens at a public place
with two kids unless they are strapped in tight
and being fed.

We took advantage of the "member mornings" at the zoo, which allowed us to ride the train and carousel for free!

More "choo-choo" for Bray Baby

The zoo carousel is pretty awesome with zebras,
giraffes, lions, eagles, leopards, and apes to ride
instead of the traditional horses.  

Braylen was on his best behavior for our quick morning at the zoo.  We kept our visit to the front exhibits, like the polar bears and petting zoo this time.  It was just enough on this slightly hot & humid summer day.

Checking out his cute date
These two are about a month apart too.  Love them.

Our Mommy & Bray time has been awesome so far and we are only 3 days into the summer school session.  Many more fun times to come!

Monday, June 2, 2014

A Glorious Day: Summer School Year 2

The light at the end of the tunnel is bright; Evie started school today!  She is back at MDOW this summer, this time two mornings a week (Monday and Friday).  She was on the wait-list all school year for the two-year-old program and is on the it again for the fall, but she is in and going NOW.  I am beyond excited to have some time alone with Braylen each week and let someone else deal with my moody three-year-old for six hours a week.  Evie is a shy, thumb sucking, hair twirling girl in social situations, so I am hoping the more expose to structure and interaction with kids her age, the better for my little girl.  Plus, if you recall from last year, MDOW is 2 minutes from my house.

This year, I threw together her bag of extra clothes last night and put a diaper in her backpack this morning.  No worries about how she was going to drink from a cup or anxiety about letting her out of my watch for 3 hours.  When I told her she was going to school today, she said "I want to go now".  Well, school doesn't open at 6:51 AM.  I'm glad she was excited to go!  (I think she really wants to ride the bus like Hannah!)  She ate a huge breakfast in Evie standards- 1 scrambled egg and a piece of toast.  If I hadn't burned the french toast and nearly set off the smoke alarm, I'd say it was a great start to her first day of school.

When I told it was time to go, she put on her backpack, grabbed her bag of clothes, and waited for me by the front door, anxious to get going.

First Day of Summer School 2014!

Evie pushed her brother, in the stroller, into school.  She was shy meeting her teachers, which is typical Evie behavior.  She is in the "Heart Room" this summer with Miss Caitlin and Miss Carmen.  I have heard great things about Miss Caitlin and I like that both of her teachers are my age.  We all know how much she loves old people...  

I talked with her teachers for a few minutes and was out of there.  No tears; Evie is used to me dropping her off at this point.  It was fun running into a bunch of moms I know from the area; a huge change from my feelings of clueless-ness from last year!

With Braylen around, I don't do many crafts with Evie at home.  I am glad she will some kind of art activity every class.  Here's day 1's craft:

Day 1 Craft.  Let the SUMMER of artwork begin 

I've seen little ones carrying these bags for the last year and wondered when Evie would make one.  I got my answer, today!  She was not having any part of putting her hand in paint to add her hand prints to it.  Hopefully another day she will be in the mood this summer.  She is officially looks like a MDOW student with her bag.

 

What did I do with my 3 hours?  Braylen and I shopped at Trader Joes, stopped by Auntie Laura's to bring some groceries and say hi to G and Poppop, played at home, did a load of laundry, and were back in the car to get Evie.  It went fast!  On Friday, Braylen will have a play date with a little friend his age.  I hope to alternate between errands and play dates/activities each week.  I think summer school will be wonderful for all of three of us!  

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Elmo Says

Evie likes to follow the commands in this one Sesame Street book we have; it's like Simon Says.  Braylen is interested in doing the motions now too.  He was so cute doing it the other night with our buddies Chase and Alexa.  I wish I had recorded it because C & A are huge compared to my little ones.  Braylen was having a ball with the "big" kids.

It is our go-to activity when Emily and Evie start to fight like sisters.  While I had Emily for a few minutes during the "witching hour" today, I brought out the foam squares and the Elmo/Sesame Street  book.  They are so cute when they get along.... It was not so cute when Evie was having a tantrum, Braylen was pulling Emily's hair, and Emily was gripping the play kitchen for dear life preventing Evie from touching it all at the same time.  That's my life these days; one minute cuteness, the next minute foaming at the mouth tantrums.

Here's cuteness for you


Saturday, May 24, 2014

Evie turns Three!

In honor of turning three, Evie had three days of celebrations.  Even though there were three "parties", I kept with my birthday party motto of "keep the expectation LOW while they are young".  None of the parties were at my house, which meant ZERO cleaning was done.  My stress level was way lower this year.  I think I may be onto something good.

Day ONE:  Gifts & Cupcakes at MeMa's house (Sat, May 10)

She does not enjoy the attention of her birthday-
candles, singing, and watching her open gifts
make her cling to us, hide her face, & suck her thumb

But when it's time to eat sweets, all shyness is gone!

Oh good, a new crockpot!  :)
Evie really liked her striped flip-flops, elephant
watering can, and water/sand toys

Braylen really liked the scooter

But the best gift was the bubble wrap... 

Day TWO: Playground Party with Evie's forced friends (Thurs, May 22)

This party made me happy.  The kids were entertained by the playground equipment (also bugs, rocks, sand, and mulch), I kept the food to goldfish, berries, and Oreo "dirt", and I had some of my favorite and most helpful mom friends there.  Having a party with all moms there is awesome; they knew exactly what I needed without me saying one word.

So glad to have these ladies, boys, and girls as friends!

But since it's about Evie and not me... (but it kind of is... happy mom makes a happy family) EVIE had a great time playing with all her boyfriends.  Seriously, all but one of the kids there her age were boys except Naomi (AKA "Omi").

Wild, curly hair friends :)

Alison had the great idea of lining the kids up on the slide.  I let the moms figure out how to make that happen while I snapped away.

Quick, get everyone together!


Braylen's little girlfriend, Fiona, starts to melt down

LOL at Braylen.  We lost Fiona and Jack likes the mulch.
Michelle's kids look great though!

We lost Chase up the slide... Braylen is still in a choke hold

Hold places.... Get Chase back... Wait Fiona!

Good enough.  Evie looks adorable, so we're done :)

Could it be?!  My children playing nicely together!?

Then Braylen shoves all the mulch in his mouth... 

This picture just cracks me up.  Liz's kids are chowing down
on "dirt", Naomi is eating a healthy carrot, and my two
are sucking thumbs.  I swear my kids had fun!




Day THREE: Breakfast with the Smith's & Playground Family Party (Her birthday! Sat, May 24)

Evie's actual birthday was spend doing all things Evie likes-

First up, Dunkin' Donuts for breakfast with her BFF, Emily (and her family)

Evie showing us she is 3

Snarfing down some yummy powered donuts!
(Yes... I did host something at my house, but it was the Smith's
who are invited over whether my house is clean or not ;)  )

Emily gave Evie the sweetest birthday gift- pictures of the two of them

She got lots of great gifts from her family
in NC and PA.  The balloon was right up there
with all the favorite gifts

Balloons for all party-goers!

Later that afternoon after naps, we went to the playground right around the corner for another party with G, Poppop, Auntie Laura, Cole, and Hannah.  Cole and Hannah's other grandparents were in town from FL, so they joined us too along with the beloved Auntie Kira and Uncle Alex.

Keeping with tradition, Jason made the
cake at the 11th hour the night before
her birthday.  The fur didn't have the "texture"
he hoped for, but it's a pretty cute polar
bear nevertheless.

A trike and helmet were her "big gifts".  Braylen is at the perfect
age to be our helper pushing Evie.  Both kids were happy

Our birthday girl!

The crew

And the obligatory cousin picture...

Wow, I'm exhausted just rehashing all the fun from Evie's marathon of birthday parties.  What a great start to THREE!




Sunday, May 18, 2014

Life is Great in 21228

That is the bumper sticker I see around Catonsville.  It used to bother me slightly because I didn't think life was so great in Maryland.  All of my close friends kept moving away and I always felt like an outsider here.  Everyone seemed to know each other and have family here.  Jason and I would bring up moving back to PA all the time.

I can honestly say, on May 18, 2014, that I think living in 21228 is great.  Here are three reasons why I love Catonsville

1. I can get to a plethora of Baltimore attractions in 20 minutes or less.

I don't think my kids (or I, really) realize how lucky we are to hop to The Maryland Zoo on a Friday morning or eat goldfish while watching dolphins swim at the National Aquarium on a Wednesday.   We have memberships at The Maryland Zoo, Maryland Science Center, and B & O Railroad Museum.  Fortunately, we were able to use a friend's guest pass at the National Aquarium too.  We went to all of those places over a two month period.  That makes 21228 great.

March 4- Loaded up in Auntie L's van, heading to the
Science Center to use our new memberships

Cheesin' it up

April 18: Spring Break for Hannah.
The whole crew goes back to The Maryland Zoo

Seeing the polar bears brings me such happiness.  

Snacks & tantrums by 4 giraffees- what every
two year old does on a Friday.  Spoiled kids!

May 7: B & O Railroad Museum
We soaked up every minute of our last few days with
Lisa & Emily while Lisa was home on maternity leave

May 14: National Aquarium
After watching "The Cove" I feel guilty taking my kids to
see dolphins in captivity... they are fascinating creatures!

I forced my friend to take multiple pictures of ME with my kids.
No strollers are allowed, but they give you that fancy backpack.
Braylen loved it and Evie did a great job walking

JAWS comes to Maryland!

2.  My sister lives 20 minutes from me

I love raising my kids with their cousins.  Hannah and Cole will be in their life forever; I pray they will always be best buds.

Watching the elephants

Post egg hunt

3.  The wonderful girlfriends that I met over the past two years that have grounded me here.

Shout out to:

Lisa for being everything I ever wanted in a neighbor/best friend.  She is the main reason I want to stay put.  Our friendship is such that we can just show up at each other's houses unannounced.  It doesn't matter if we are in PJs, the kitchen floor is covered in spices, or we are screaming at our children.  We bring each other dinner, we have dinner together, we make SOS calls to pick up a kid when we've had enough, we walk the neighborhood all.the.time, and sometimes just sit together and wonder how the heck we are going to get through motherhood.   If we move, I need Lisa in my 'hood; wouldn't you?!

Laura for encouraging me to join her Mom's group which allowed me to explore all the C-ville playgrounds, meet beau coup moms in a 15 minute radius, and just learn about the happenings of Catonsville.

Karla for suggesting I join her MOPS (Mother's of Preschoolers) group.  I got a break from my kids for 2.5 hours each week and was able to connect with other moms with similar situations (ie kids close in age, no grandparents close, etc).

I've been praying for a good girlfriend to live close to me (and stay here!) for a long time.  It happened in God's time, not mine.  Lots of love to Alison as well,  for reaching out to me on Facebook as soon as I joined MOPS.  I have someone originally from PA that is an EAGLES fan!!!  She had me at "we should be best friends"  :)


(Sorry for all the mushy-ness.  Actually, I'm not.   I don't verbalize enough how much my friends and family mean to me because I am too busy chasing after my kids or have mommy brain 99% of my day.  So darn-it, I am writing it on my blog because I want these ladies to know they have made a huge impact on me feeling at home in 21228.)


As our friends not in 21228 invite us to their big four bedroom houses "out in the boonies" (AKA affordable areas), we find ourselves saying we would rather pay a ton for our townhouse in 21228 than have the big house in the middle of nowhere (at least that's what it seems to us).  We dream of living in a big house with a fenced in yard someday, but I think we're staying put for a little bit longer.



Thursday, May 15, 2014

WHY?

Yep, it happened this week.

Evie's response to everything is now "why?"

For a while it was "what are you doing?", which didn't bother me quite as much as the constant "why".

Two weeks shy of being THREE

Lord, give me patience as we embark on this next season.  I know all kids are different, but the general consensus in my mom circles is three years old is worse than two.  Ready or not, here it comes!

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

About Braylen

For the past few months I've been meaning to write a ____ month update on Braylen.  I know I will forget his cute voice, his quick walk where his cheeks giggle, and his mannerisms if I don't record them.  So I am finally sitting down to just dump a bunch of random thoughts down to remember these precious moments.

Braylen Thomas at 17 months:

Nicknames: Bossman, Bray, Bray baby

Size:  

18 month everything fit well.

Size 5W shoes.

I am pretty sure he weighs more than Evie now.  I'd say 25 pounds.  Both will be weighed next month.

Tree trunks for legs :)

Likes

Braylen loves to be outside.   Don't mention the word "outside" unless you are walking out the door that minute.  When Braylen hears "outside" he runs to the door saying "outside, outside, outside".  He picks up the baby stroller and impatiently bangs on the door to go out.  He likes to push toys around the circle, watch the older boys stroll by on scooters, gaze at men mowing the grass, play in the sandbox, splash in the water table, swing, go down the slide, run away from Mommy when it's time to get into the car or go inside, pop bubbles, pick weeds, point to birds and planes, fall on the sidewalk and scrape his nose... the list goes on and on.  He will be very active at the beach and pool this summer!

He went from toy to toy at MeMa's house this weekend.
I think he could maneveour that wagon better than me!

Either he is dumping water down his front or trying to drink it

Braylen likes to open doors, stand on stools, hold/shake pill containers, pull the plunger and toilet bowl brush out of the base, open the drawers in the kitchen and empty out as many contents as he can reach, flick the VCR slot flap, push buttons on the DVD player while Evie is watching a DVD, open DVD and CD cases,  and take items off the door in the refrigerator.

We're taping library books...


As far as toys he should be playing with: look at books, stir water or imaginary food, trains, put screws/nails into the holes on the work bench, hold the "on" button on the blender, climb onto chairs, watch DVDs (gasp!  you know all second children have more screen time than firsts...)

in the "G" fan club

Language:

Braylen has a plethora of words.  Even so, he uses "that" and points as his main way of communication.  As his mother, I recognize words like crackers (graham, animal, Ritz), blueberries, airplane, outside, cheerios, choo-choo, water, monkey, boat, book, truck, help.  That should give you an idea of what we eat and he likes to do.  He is starting to string two words together, like saying "Boat Book".  I love listening to his vocabulary expand.  The one word that has not come out of his mouth yet is "no".  It will now that I wrote that.  I am shocked since he hears it all day long!

Braylen's favorite name to say is "Dadio!"  It is so cute.  He loves Dadio.  I am not sad one bit when he asks for Dadio instead of me.  I actually rarely hear him say "Mommy".   He knows "Par-ker" and I think I hear some "Ah-ies" too.  He lights up when he sees MeMa on Skype.  He hasn't mastered MeMa yet, but has some name that he says when we sees her.  He can say "G" and his "Pop" grandfathers with prompting.

Random Skills:

I keep thinking as Braylen as my little baby and am shocked when he does things that I consider a toddler to do.  Well, duh, he is one!  He understands when we tell him it's time to eat; he goes immediately to his chair.  He will ask for water when he is thirsty (or when he sees one of us drinking it).  Braylen will grab his shoes if we are going outside.  He made an attempt to put them on the other day.  He knows how to put Parker in and out of his crate.

Since his streak of boo-boos to the nose, the falls have been limited.  He is steadier when he walks fast, the only speed he walks.  He recently showed interest in going down the stairs standing up.  If I hold his hand, he is allowed to walk down, otherwise we encourage him to go down on his bottom or backwards.   At the playground, he holds onto the rail and gets up with my help.  Mastering stairs is such an important milestone to me; I am pleased he is ready to tackle this big boy skill!

Personality:

Braylen is very affectionate with my mom friends.  He will gladly snuggle with Lisa, Michelle, Alison, etc.  He cries for a few minutes when I drop him off at the nursery at church or for MOPS, but otherwise is fine.  He waves goodbye and gives hugs and kisses when you leave.  It is so cute.

Braylen cries a lot around Evie.  They do not share well (as they are not expected to at this age) leading to lots of screaming and tears.  Evie also pushes Bray around.  Poor guy.  Someday he will realize he is much bigger and can take her down!  On the flip side, the two of them laugh at each other while they do laps around the dining room table or when Braylen does silly things in his high chair.

For the most part, he is easy going and happy.



Teeth:

Molars in.  Waiting on eye teeth, then 2 year molars.  He is a major thumb sucker.


I'm losing steam.  More updates on Braylen next month!  It's my goal to get some decent videos.