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Showing posts with label Parker. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parker. Show all posts

Monday, August 31, 2015

Potty Patrol

Evie loves taking care of Parker.  Out of all of us, she is definitely the one most attached, giving him the most attention.  She enjoys chasing after him, playing fetch, and smothering him with hugs.


Parker would not have allowed that level of affection years ago; he would have ran away or growled to let us know he had enough.  He has just given up on avoiding the kids.  They invade his crate, walk him on a leash in the house, choke hug him, and lay on top of him.


Hey, if he isn't going to run or bark at them, then I am going to let the love fest continue!

In addition to Evie's job of feeding "her dog" 2 times a day, she also has taken over potty duty.  I found after I put Evie in "room time"  and Bray down for nap each day, I was wasting 10 precious minutes of alone time walking Parker.  Evie began asking to walk with me, which led to wanting to walk him.  Shockingly, the two are a good combo.  Somehow our petite 27 lb. four-year-old can handle our 35 lb overweight, not well trained dog.  So instead of walking him alone at 1:30, I have Evie walk Parker with me on poop duty.

Braylen was feeling left out in the mornings when Daddio and Evie walked Parker.  He happily took over poop bag duty.


If only we lived in a world where it was acceptable to let my four-year-old walk our dog alone...

Saturday, May 23, 2015

Parker's New (and only) Buddy

Warning:  If I notice you around my neighborhood doing something that will benefit my family in some way, I will stalk you until I have enough courage to ask you about said benefit.

I snooped in cars to figure out who had kids then would high tail it outside when I saw a mom walking a little one about Evie's age.  Evie and I both gained best buds from that stalking...

Now I think I have gained *free* dog sitting from neighbors who also have a cocker spaniel.  This benefit was a little harder to secure, but at last, we are dog swapping fools!

Meet Abby


Abby-girl, as we like to call her, is 7 years old (dating an older man; Parker is 9).  She is dainty, softer than Parker (didn't think that was possible), has black curly fur, is a terrible leash walker just like Parker, makes herself at home on your lap, and was just adored by Evie-girl.

We tried to fool everyone on Facebook by posting this picture


My favorite text was from Bethany who was going to tell me to increase my meds if I answered we got another dog.  Heck. No.  

Abby was really no added stress or trouble to our life.  Her and Parker co-existed; not a lot of hiney sniffing, no humping, and no ball playing together.  They pretty much followed us around and caught naps when Evie wasn't up in their junk.  We laughed when Parker took a spot on our bed at night and Abby decided to sleep on Parker's bed.  Who would have thought 15 years ago that we would have two dogs sleeping in our room.? Thankfully all 6 of us slept through the night :)

Evie- this is something that will never happen.  There will
no dogs as birthday gifts.  


I am really excited that my neighbor stalking worked out for both parties.  We had Abby for an overnight, then the next night Parker went to Abby's house while we went to PA DOG FREE!  Unfortunately our vacations this summer are at the same time, so my hope of getting free dog sitting while at the beach is not looking promising.  I will keep stalking... :)

Sunday, May 11, 2014

Dog Walker in Training

Parker, low "child" on the totem pole, is taken out to do his business 3 times a day: morning, while the kids are napping in the afternoon, and before we go to bed.  He likes to bark at every dog, trash can, and moving object, so it's rare that he gets to go outside for extra walks.  If you feel sorry for him, you can have him.

On the rare occasion we include Parker on our walks around the 'hood with the kids, Evie has demanded to walk Parker.  I know my dog well and his less than stellar leash walking.  I was hesitant to hand over the reigns completely to my 24 pound girl.  Our dog is a solid 35 pounds and could easily pull Evie down if a squirrel crossed his path.  To my surprise, Parker walked extremely well with Evie.  Maybe it was because she was chit-chatting with him the entire time.  Listening to her repeat our commands to Parker is so darn funny.

While we were visiting MeMa this Mother's Day weekend, Parker got some extra fresh air and an ear full from Evie.  The video is rather long.  There isn't a big ending or anything special you need to wait 3 minutes, 48 seconds for; I kept the video rolling because she was hysterical bossing around Parker.


My dream of having a free dog walker might be coming true sooner than I think

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Fourth (and Final?) Surgery

Back in early January, our mobile dog groomer (you know that sketch van that drives around town that pulls up to your house, "grooms" your dog, and return him/her shaking 20 minutes later) asked me if I knew there was a fatty tumor on Parker's chest.  Do I ever pet my dog anymore to even notice that he had a tennis ball sized growth between his neck and chest?  Nope.  Shame on me and us for not noticing.  But thank you dog groomer for pointing this out to us!  She said she has seen a lot of dogs through her years as a groomer and this kind of thing is common in older dogs and cockers.  She thought it was worth mentioning to his vet on his next visit.

Conveniently, Parker had a follow-up appointment at the vet for a bacterial skin infection the following week, so Jason brought up the tumor.  The vet was 99% sure it was a fatty tumor and typically they do not remove them, but since this one was so big and near vital organs, he felt it should be taken out before it caused major issues.  He could do it, but if he got in there and it was too difficult for him to remove based on proximity to major blood vessels and organs, he would sew him back up and recommend a specialist (more expensive).

Decisions, decisions.

Jason and I have joked about not paying for a major surgery if Parker needed one.  Terrible, I know.  Would we choose to say "nah, you don't need to live much longer" and forgo a surgery to prolong life for our children?  Absolutely not.  So we decided to skip the cheaper option, using the regular vet, and go right to the expensive dog surgeon to take care of the tumor in one surgery.  And there goes the much needed tax return needed to buy food and cover our Verizon bill...

I was complaining about Parker's needed surgery at a mom's group event shortly after this appointment.  Another mom quickly chimed in that she had a great dog surgeon who wasn't board certified so it made her cheaper.   Done.  We would go through with the surgery and I had a surgeon.  Check!

A few weeks later, I took Parker in for his consult.  Dr. Walesby is great.  The way she calmed down my panting-like-he-is-ready-to-have-a-heart-attack dog put me at ease.  In fact, my 30 minute consult was the most relaxing part of my day; the kids were at home with a babysitter.   Wow, what a difference it makes to take your dog for a check up instead of your kids.  I didn't mind one bit if Parker licked the floor, picked up random specks of dust from the floor, or sprawled out on the floor.  Typically I am breaking a sweat keeping all of my children's body parts for touching any surface that might have icky germs on it.

Parker went in the next morning for his surgery.  Thank you Jason for doing that difficult job for us.  He said Parker watched him walk out of the building with sad eyes.  And that my friends, it how we ended up with a dog in the first place!  Those sad, make-my-heart-melt eyes with the slight head tilt that makes give the cocker spaniel its name.

Dr. Walesby informed us after surgery that it was best that we had the mass removed.  She had to scrap it off his veins and muscle.  She had to do a little bit of reconstruction once she was finished cleaning it off.  She felt she got all of it.  Parker was sown up with 11 staples :(  He spent the night at the vet (THANK GOODNESS!) and came home the next afternoon.

Parker was so happy to be home.  The kids were excited to see him too.  His incision looked pretty nasty and as expected, Parker was scratching at it with his hind legs.  We needed a t-shirt or something to deter him from opening the wound.  The best idea was to use Jason's undershirt and a hairband...

Parker rocks the 80s look

Parker was put on a 3 week exercise restriction (no walks, no stairs, no jumping, no running...), which is actually fairly easy since we have to leash him to go out to the bathroom, he is a lazy dog anyways, and he likes his crate.  The more difficult tasks were to ice the wound three times a day for 15 minutes, for 4 days, then do the same thing for another 3 days, but use heat.  Are you kidding me?  I think he let us put a bag of frozen peas on him for 15 minutes TOTAL over 4 days.   Worst dog parents ever.

His shirt got upgraded multiple times over the three weeks

A practically free dog Halloween costume
from Petsmart.  He's Peter Pan in case
you couldn't tell

It's a little tight... it lasted about 4 days

The Richard's gave us a small boy
t-shirt which was perfect!

As you see, the jumping restriction only lasted about a week before we gave up and let him on the couch.  That's his favorite spot to sleep.  He liked watching Lady and The Tramp with Evie on lazy afternoons

Now that I have a cocker, Lady is spot on to how
Parker acts.  Good job Disney.

Three weeks to do the day, Parker returned to Dr. Walesby and received a good bill of health.  The mass was just a fatty one and surgery was the solution.  He had his stitches removed and was cleared to be a "normal" dog again!

You can't even tell where he was opened!

The only reminder of his surgery is his goofy haircut.  They shaved half of his body and some of his legs.

The t-shirt nicely covered his bad hair-do

You can see where he had his IV 

Even though he looks a little funny, he still
has amazingly soft and beautiful fur!

Parker lives to see another day... and another 7 years.  Our pup is about halfway through his expected life.  As much as we hope this is the last surgery (after two eye surgeries and being neutered), I have a feeling there will be a few more things down the road.   We are glad to have our faithful friend back to his normal self.

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

In The Doghouse

Parker's status in this house drops with each new addition.  We still feed him and get him out three times a day, but he definitely lacks attention and being exercised.  He deals with Evie pulling his ears, screaming at him for taking her play food, and with me constantly telling him "no".  When I've had enough of Parker licking Braylen, sniffing the dirty diaper on the floor, following Evie while she eats goldfish from her snack trap, barking at who knows what, or just being in my way, I put him in his crate.

It feels like the only thing I can control right now is to put Parker in his crate and get a break for how ever long I need.

Until today.

After returning home from our big outing to the dry cleanings, bank, and Bible Study today, Evie walked right over to Parker's crate and let him out.  She has let him out before when I only lock the top lock.  I locked both this time.  There was no stopping her.  Parker out....

..... And Evie in
She crawled right on in and shut the door behind her

Parker is thinking "WTF?!  I have officially lost my final stronghold
in this place"

After nap, Evie introduced baby to her new home

Now I listen to Evie slamming open the door.  Our poor walls...

I might not have a place to contain Parker, but I have a new play house for Evie!

Monday, October 15, 2012

Girl's Best Friend

Parker and Evie are becoming best friends.  Or at least Evie thinks so.


What's not to love about a furry cocker spaniel?  (Well... let me list the ways...)  He is just like a teddy bear, but warmer!  Even though Parker quietly growls while she lays on him, he doesn't move.  He has never snapped at her, so I say, go for it Evie!


But wait!  There might be something else just as excited as a 4 legged friend. A Blackberry!  Yes, my daughter has a more advanced phone than me. That is completely by my choice and I'm darn proud to own a non smartphone.


Looking at pictures of grandparents and talking
on the phone

It's amazing to me how quickly babies and toddlers flock to play and real phones.  Look at her- she is already using her shoulder to hold up the phone!  My explanation- what are most of us doing all day?  Checking/talking on our darn phones!  Why wouldn't toddler imitate this behavior? 


I'm glad Evie finds her dog amusing and is willing to give up her Crackberry for some Parker snuggles.  The poor dog could use some attention :)

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

The magic number TWELVE!!

I kept saying, "just make it until 12 weeks". Well, I'M HERE! It's kind of like your birthday or New Years. All this hype and then the day comes and you think you'll feel different, but you don't. This whole thing isn't real to me yet. Jason and I don't talk about it much because we are hesitant to get excited. I don't look pregnant and I don't feel pregnant. I'm glad my chances of a miscarriage have decreased drastically at this point. I'm ready for some other sign the nugget is still growing and healthy! I guess I'll have to wait until Dec 30th for our "big ultrasound"

I have been blessed with very few pregnancy symptoms. I kept telling Jason I wanted to feel something! I puked one day for 6 hours straight, which ended up being the 24 hour stomach bug. I decided to never wish for nausea again just to prove I was pregnant.

I have been extremely tired, but that could be a FUNction (sorry, that's what I write on the board every time I talk about FUNctions to my 11th and 12th graders. They love my attempt to make math FUN!) of getting up at dark thirty 5 days a week and dealing with needy teenagers all day. Recently I have more energy and can make it past 9pm in the evenings.

Not sure my body has changed much. I think my stomach is getting bigger, but again, that could be a FUNction of not working out anymore. Yes I know, I should be exercising to help with everything. I am enjoying a break from trying to keep a thin body for once in my life. Walking the dog is enough exercise for now.

I will blame my ever changing moods on pregnancy. Poor Jason for dealing with my barking orders and snotty comments. I will say that Jason has been much calmer with my attitude than normal. I guess he thinks I can't help it :)

No major cravings. I have been more willing to eat foods I would try to avoid in my pre-pregnancy life. Heluva Good Dip and chips is my snack of choice these days. I didn't think twice about eating a hot fudge sundae tonight. I still eat healthy- don't get your panties in a twist that I'm "letting myself go" completely. I've got this under control. The world is going to end in 2012, I'm going to enjoy my last two years... j/k :)

We didn't retake belly shots at the beginning since I didn't look much different than the ones we took in May. Here's the start of my growing belly. Bring it!

12 Weeks

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Tribute to the 4 year old

Today the ruler of our house, our fuzzy friend, the "Boz", "Boz Butt", "P-Dizzle" or simply Parker turns four. I still call him a puppy because he is still just as cute as the day he first melted our hearts. Four years ago we talked about getting a pet because at that time Jason was traveling up to 6 months of the year. I needed a friend and protector. Little did we know that we would find a liter of 7 cocker spaniels when we picked up the key to my co-worker's cabin in WV.

The puppy years were tough at points, especially since I was a single mother for his first three months at our house. But Parker has enriched our lives as well others. I used to be hesitant and often straight out fearful of dogs. My mom never liked pets. All that changed with Parker. Even though he interferes with our traveling plans, Parker has been perfect for our first dog EVER. And we love him dearly.

Here are some Parkerisms:

1) The Elvis Lip

Parker took a liking to plastic bottles as a pup. As a result he has some crooked teeth. His lip gets stuck on this tooth, and wa la, Elvis returns!



2) The green ball

Not only does Parker like to play catch with his ball, he also MUST have it either in his bowl or near his bowl when he eats. We don't go anywhere without it



3) Cruisin'

What dog doesn't like to cruise in the car?



4)Loofah Dogs

Parker has an obsession with loofah dogs. We have probably spent over $200 buying these toys through the years. Parker tends to tear them apart within 5 minutes of receiving a new one. Here's the current "pile of shame"



5) He's a beer drinker

Parker enjoys the backwash from beer bottles. His favorite is corona. The lime makes him lick for minutes



6) Bully Sticks

Parker's favorite treat is called a bully stick. It smells, but he loves them. Check out the ingredient



7) He's a mama's boy

If Jason is sitting on the couch with Parker and I sit down, he will automatically move and sit as close to me (usually on top of me) as possible. No matter where I go, he follows me. I think I'll have some company for those midnight feedings!



8) "Pancake"

Laying on the ground with all four legs out is Parker's favorite position. Our neighbor came up with the term "pancake" for this look. Parker likes to keep an eye on the neighborhood for us.



9) Cone of Shame

Poor Parker has "cherry eye" and had to endure (more like we had to endure...) two eye surgeries. Parker had to wear the lampshade or as they call it in "UP", the cone of shame. Parker crashed into our shins and the steps for days until he realized he needed to lift his head. No cones for the last two years :)



10) Not photogenic

We torture our dog by taking many pictures of him. This includes random shots and forced poses for Christmas cards, fashion shows, and family portraits. Here is a collection of our favorites. We laughed so hard making this album. We love our Boz!

WARNING: Some of the following might be offensive to viewers.

4 years of Parker's "finer" moments!!